And that’s what I always burden myself with.
The problem is that we always want someone to do the work of unearthing, creating, activating, and then convincing us of the love in our lives.
We want someone else to do what we were taught that we couldn’t do for ourselves. And that’s simply toxic.
But here’s the truth.
The love we really want is our own.
What we’re seeking in someone else is what we aren’t giving to ourselves.
What angers us the most is what we weren’t accepting and healing. What gives us joy and hope is what we already have within us.
To find a relationship to be that enhancer begins within.
For we are what we give. Not what we receive.
We are who we love. Not who loves us.